feat(social): asymmetric per-user block, in-game block control, admin lists

Make a per-user block one-directional and non-destructive: the blocker stops
receiving everything from the blocked user (chat, nudge, friend requests,
invitations) and the matchmaker never pairs them, while the blocked user
notices nothing — their sends still persist by the normal rules but are never
delivered or surfaced (born-read). A block no longer deletes the friendship
(an unblock cleanly restores it) and instant-reads any unread the blocked user
had left for the blocker.

- backend: a directional blockExists guard across chat/nudge/friends/invitations
  (store-but-hide for the blocked->blocker direction, refuse blocker->blocked);
  the matchmaker excludes a block-related pair (both directions) from auto-match;
  user_blocked/user_unblocked notifications to the blocker only (in-app only).
- ui: the opponent score card gains a block ✖️ control mirroring add-friend
  (red "Block?" confirm, mutual-hide while confirming, struck name, hidden chat
  composer when blocked); optimistic apply + event confirm + rollback for both.
- admin: the user card gains cross-linked blocks / blocked-by / friends lists.
- docs: FUNCTIONAL(+ru), ARCHITECTURE §10 + decision record, UI_DESIGN, PRERELEASE.

backend/cmd/backend/main.go

@@ -189,6 +189,7 @@ func run(ctx context.Context, cfg config.Config, logger *zap.Logger) error {
 
 	matchmaker := lobby.NewMatchmaker(games, robots, cfg.Lobby.RobotWait, cfg.Lobby.RobotWaitJitter, logger)
 	matchmaker.SetNotifier(hub)
+	matchmaker.SetBlocker(socialSvc)
 	go matchmaker.RunReaper(ctx, cfg.Lobby.ReaperInterval)
 	invitations := lobby.NewInvitationService(lobby.NewStore(db), games, accounts, socialSvc)
 	invitations.SetNotifier(hub)

backend/internal/adminconsole/render_test.go

@@ -26,6 +26,11 @@ func TestRendererRendersEveryPage(t *testing.T) {
 		{"user_detail", UserDetailView{ID: "a1", DisplayName: "Kaya", HasStats: true, Stats: StatsRow{Wins: 2}, TelegramID: "123", ConnectorEnabled: true}, "Send Telegram message"},
 		{"user_detail", UserDetailView{ID: "a1", DisplayName: "Kaya", FlaggedHighRateAt: "2026-06-10 12:00"}, "Clear high-rate flag"},
 		{"user_detail", UserDetailView{ID: "a1", DisplayName: "Kaya", Roles: []string{"feedback_banned"}, KnownRoles: []string{"feedback_banned"}}, "feedback_banned"},
+		{"user_detail", UserDetailView{ID: "a1", DisplayName: "Kaya",
+			Friends:   []RelationRow{{AccountID: "b2", DisplayName: "Ann", Date: "2026-06-10 12:00"}},
+			Blocks:    []RelationRow{{AccountID: "c3", DisplayName: "Bob", Date: "2026-06-11 09:00"}},
+			BlockedBy: []RelationRow{{AccountID: "d4", DisplayName: "Cay", Date: "2026-06-12 08:00"}},
+		}, `/_gm/users/c3`},
 		{"throttled", ThrottledView{
 			Episodes:      []ThrottleEpisodeRow{{Class: "user", Key: "a1", UserID: "a1", Rejected: 1234, FirstSeen: "2026-06-10 12:00", LastSeen: "2026-06-10 12:05"}},
 			Flagged:       []FlaggedAccountRow{{ID: "a1", DisplayName: "Kaya", FlaggedAt: "2026-06-10 12:05"}},

backend/internal/adminconsole/templates/pages/user_detail.gohtml

@@ -102,6 +102,36 @@
 </tbody>
 </table>
 </section>
+<section class="panel"><h2>Friends</h2>
+<table class="list">
+<thead><tr><th>Account</th><th>Friends since</th></tr></thead>
+<tbody>
+{{range .Friends}}
+<tr><td><a href="/_gm/users/{{.AccountID}}">{{.DisplayName}}</a></td><td>{{.Date}}</td></tr>
+{{else}}<tr><td colspan="2"><span class="note">no friends</span></td></tr>{{end}}
+</tbody>
+</table>
+</section>
+<section class="panel"><h2>Blocks</h2>
+<table class="list">
+<thead><tr><th>Account</th><th>Blocked at</th></tr></thead>
+<tbody>
+{{range .Blocks}}
+<tr><td><a href="/_gm/users/{{.AccountID}}">{{.DisplayName}}</a></td><td>{{.Date}}</td></tr>
+{{else}}<tr><td colspan="2"><span class="note">blocks no one</span></td></tr>{{end}}
+</tbody>
+</table>
+</section>
+<section class="panel"><h2>Blocked by</h2>
+<table class="list">
+<thead><tr><th>Account</th><th>Blocked at</th></tr></thead>
+<tbody>
+{{range .BlockedBy}}
+<tr><td><a href="/_gm/users/{{.AccountID}}">{{.DisplayName}}</a></td><td>{{.Date}}</td></tr>
+{{else}}<tr><td colspan="2"><span class="note">blocked by no one</span></td></tr>{{end}}
+</tbody>
+</table>
+</section>
 {{if .TelegramID}}
 <section class="panel"><h2>Send Telegram message</h2>
 {{if .ConnectorEnabled}}

backend/internal/adminconsole/views.go

@@ -175,6 +175,21 @@ type UserDetailView struct {
 	// grant form offers. The first role is the feedback ban (see internal/account).
 	Roles      []string
 	KnownRoles []string
+	// Blocks, BlockedBy and Friends are the social graph on the card: who this account has
+	// blocked, who currently blocks it, and its mutual friendships — each cross-linked to the
+	// other account with the date it happened. They are the full truth; the asymmetric block
+	// suppression that hides relationships from players never applies to the console.
+	Blocks    []RelationRow
+	BlockedBy []RelationRow
+	Friends   []RelationRow
+}
+
+// RelationRow is one cross-linked account in the user card's blocks / blocked-by / friends
+// lists: the other account's id (the link target), its display name, and the pre-formatted date.
+type RelationRow struct {
+	AccountID   string
+	DisplayName string
+	Date        string
 }
 
 // SuspensionView is an account's current manual-block state shown on the user card: whether it

backend/internal/game/service.go

@@ -274,7 +274,7 @@ func (svc *Service) Create(ctx context.Context, params CreateParams) (Game, erro
 // pins it. First-move fairness comes from seating the caller at seat 0 or seat 1
 // (derived from the seed): seated at seat 1, the still-empty seat 0 moves first, so the
 // caller just waits for the opponent. It backs the lobby auto-match enqueue.
-func (svc *Service) OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, params CreateParams, openDeadline time.Time) (Game, bool, error) {
+func (svc *Service) OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, params CreateParams, openDeadline time.Time, exclude []uuid.UUID) (Game, bool, error) {
 	acc, err := svc.accounts.GetByID(ctx, accountID)
 	if err != nil {
 		if errors.Is(err, account.ErrNotFound) {
@@ -319,7 +319,7 @@ func (svc *Service) OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, params
 	if seed&1 == 1 {
 		seats = []seatInsert{{}, caller}
 	}
-	gameID, joined, created, err := svc.store.OpenOrJoin(ctx, accountID, acc.DisplayName, ins, seats)
+	gameID, joined, created, err := svc.store.OpenOrJoin(ctx, accountID, acc.DisplayName, ins, seats, exclude)
 	if err != nil {
 		return Game{}, false, err
 	}

backend/internal/game/store.go

@@ -200,22 +200,27 @@ func openMatchKey(variant string, multipleWords bool) int64 {
 // order) used only when a game is created; callerName is the caller's display-name
 // snapshot, stamped on their seat whether they open a fresh game or fill another
 // player's open one.
-func (s *Store) OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, callerName string, ins gameInsert, seats []seatInsert) (gameID uuid.UUID, joined, created bool, err error) {
+func (s *Store) OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, callerName string, ins gameInsert, seats []seatInsert, exclude []uuid.UUID) (gameID uuid.UUID, joined, created bool, err error) {
 	err = withTx(ctx, s.db, func(tx *sql.Tx) error {
 		if _, e := tx.ExecContext(ctx, `SELECT pg_advisory_xact_lock($1)`,
 			openMatchKey(ins.variant, ins.multipleWordsPerTurn)); e != nil {
 			return fmt.Errorf("open match lock: %w", e)
 		}
 		// 1. Another player's open game waiting for an opponent — fill its seat and start it.
+		// A game whose waiting player is in exclude (the caller's per-user block set, either
+		// direction) is skipped, so a block keeps the pair out of the same anonymous game;
+		// an empty exclude (the "{}" literal) excludes nothing.
 		var other uuid.UUID
 		switch e := tx.QueryRowContext(ctx,
 			`SELECT g.game_id FROM backend.games g
 			  WHERE g.status = 'open' AND g.variant = $1 AND g.multiple_words_per_turn = $2
 			    AND NOT EXISTS (SELECT 1 FROM backend.game_players p
 			                     WHERE p.game_id = g.game_id AND p.account_id = $3)
+			    AND NOT EXISTS (SELECT 1 FROM backend.game_players b
+			                     WHERE b.game_id = g.game_id AND b.account_id = ANY($4::uuid[]))
 			  ORDER BY g.created_at
 			  LIMIT 1 FOR UPDATE SKIP LOCKED`,
-			ins.variant, ins.multipleWordsPerTurn, accountID).Scan(&other); {
+			ins.variant, ins.multipleWordsPerTurn, accountID, uuidArrayLiteral(exclude)).Scan(&other); {
 		case e == nil:
 			if er := fillOpenSeat(ctx, tx, other, accountID, callerName); er != nil {
 				return er

backend/internal/inttest/block_test.go

@@ -0,0 +1,270 @@
+//go:build integration
+
+package inttest
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"errors"
+	"testing"
+	"time"
+
+	"github.com/google/uuid"
+
+	"scrabble/backend/internal/engine"
+	"scrabble/backend/internal/notify"
+	"scrabble/backend/internal/social"
+)
+
+// TestBlockInstantReadsExistingUnread checks that blocking marks read any chat the blocked
+// user had left unread for the blocker in their shared games, so no stale unread badge
+// lingers for someone the blocker no longer sees.
+func TestBlockInstantReadsExistingUnread(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	gameID, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	sender, viewer := seats[0], seats[1] // seat 0 moves first, so it may chat
+
+	if _, err := svc.PostMessage(ctx, gameID, sender, "good luck", ""); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("post: %v", err)
+	}
+	if unread, _ := svc.HasUnread(ctx, gameID, viewer); !unread {
+		t.Fatal("viewer should have the message unread before blocking")
+	}
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, viewer, sender); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if unread, _ := svc.HasUnread(ctx, gameID, viewer); unread {
+		t.Error("blocking should instant-read the blocked sender's prior unread message")
+	}
+}
+
+// TestChatFromBlockedIsBornReadAndNotDelivered checks the store-but-hide path for chat: a
+// message the blocked user sends is stored and visible to themselves, but is born read for
+// the blocker, never delivered to them, and hidden from their view.
+func TestChatFromBlockedIsBornReadAndNotDelivered(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	pub := &capturePublisher{}
+	svc.SetNotifier(pub)
+	gameID, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	blocked, blocker := seats[0], seats[1] // seat 0 moves first, so the blocked user may chat
+
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if _, err := svc.PostMessage(ctx, gameID, blocked, "hello there", ""); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("blocked user's post = %v, want nil (it must look ordinary to them)", err)
+	}
+	if unread, _ := svc.HasUnread(ctx, gameID, blocker); unread {
+		t.Error("the blocked sender's message must be born read for the blocker")
+	}
+	if pub.delivered(blocker, notify.KindChatMessage) {
+		t.Error("the blocked sender's message must not be delivered to the blocker")
+	}
+	if msgs, _ := svc.Messages(ctx, gameID, blocker); len(msgs) != 0 {
+		t.Errorf("blocker still sees the blocked sender's message: %+v", msgs)
+	}
+	if msgs, _ := svc.Messages(ctx, gameID, blocked); len(msgs) != 1 {
+		t.Errorf("the blocked sender should see their own message, got %+v", msgs)
+	}
+}
+
+// TestChatToBlockedIsRejected checks the blocker-side guard: a player cannot post when their
+// only opponent is someone they have blocked (the composer is hidden client-side too).
+func TestChatToBlockedIsRejected(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	gameID, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	blocker, blocked := seats[0], seats[1] // blocker moves first, so it is the one trying to chat
+
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if _, err := svc.PostMessage(ctx, gameID, blocker, "hi", ""); !errors.Is(err, social.ErrRecipientBlocked) {
+		t.Fatalf("chat to blocked opponent = %v, want ErrRecipientBlocked", err)
+	}
+}
+
+// TestNudgeFromBlockedIsBornReadAndNotDelivered checks the store-but-hide path for nudge: a
+// nudge the blocked user sends is recorded (so their once-per-hour cooldown applies, looking
+// ordinary to them) but is born read and never delivered to the blocker.
+func TestNudgeFromBlockedIsBornReadAndNotDelivered(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	pub := &capturePublisher{}
+	svc.SetNotifier(pub)
+	gameID, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	blocker, blocked := seats[0], seats[1] // seat 0 awaited; the blocked seat-1 player nudges it
+
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if _, err := svc.Nudge(ctx, gameID, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("blocked user's nudge = %v, want nil (it must look ordinary to them)", err)
+	}
+	if unread, _ := svc.HasUnread(ctx, gameID, blocker); unread {
+		t.Error("the blocked sender's nudge must be born read for the blocker")
+	}
+	if pub.delivered(blocker, notify.KindNudge) {
+		t.Error("the blocked sender's nudge must not be delivered to the blocker")
+	}
+	// The nudge is still recorded, so the cooldown applies (the blocked user notices nothing).
+	if _, ok, _ := svc.LastNudgeAt(ctx, gameID, blocked); !ok {
+		t.Error("the suppressed nudge should still be recorded")
+	}
+}
+
+// TestNudgeToBlockedIsRejected checks the blocker-side guard: a player cannot nudge the
+// awaited opponent when they have blocked them.
+func TestNudgeToBlockedIsRejected(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	gameID, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	blocked, blocker := seats[0], seats[1] // seat 0 awaited; the blocker (seat 1) tries to nudge it
+
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if _, err := svc.Nudge(ctx, gameID, blocker); !errors.Is(err, social.ErrRecipientBlocked) {
+		t.Fatalf("nudge to blocked opponent = %v, want ErrRecipientBlocked", err)
+	}
+}
+
+// TestBlockPublishesToBlockerOnly checks that block and unblock confirm to the blocker (so
+// their other sessions update in place) and never reach the blocked user.
+func TestBlockPublishesToBlockerOnly(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	pub := &capturePublisher{}
+	svc.SetNotifier(pub)
+	blocker, blocked := provisionAccount(t), provisionAccount(t)
+
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if !pub.notified(blocker, notify.NotifyUserBlocked) {
+		t.Error("the blocker should receive a user_blocked event")
+	}
+	if pub.notified(blocked, notify.NotifyUserBlocked) {
+		t.Error("the blocked user must never receive a user_blocked event")
+	}
+	if err := svc.Unblock(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("unblock: %v", err)
+	}
+	if !pub.notified(blocker, notify.NotifyUserUnblocked) {
+		t.Error("the blocker should receive a user_unblocked event")
+	}
+	if pub.notified(blocked, notify.NotifyUserUnblocked) {
+		t.Error("the blocked user must never receive a user_unblocked event")
+	}
+}
+
+// TestMatchmakingExcludesBlockedPlayers checks auto-match never pairs two players with a
+// block between them (either direction), while an unblocked third player still joins.
+func TestMatchmakingExcludesBlockedPlayers(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	clearOpenGames(t)
+	mm := newMatchmaker(t, newRobotService(t, newGameService()), 90*time.Second, 90*time.Second)
+	soc := newSocialService()
+	mm.SetBlocker(soc)
+	a, b, c := provisionAccount(t), provisionAccount(t), provisionAccount(t)
+
+	if err := soc.Block(ctx, a, b); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	// The block is seen from both sides — the exclusion set unions both directions.
+	if !contains(blockedWith(t, soc, a), b) || !contains(blockedWith(t, soc, b), a) {
+		t.Fatal("a block must appear in BlockedWith for both the blocker and the blocked")
+	}
+
+	// b opens a game awaiting an opponent.
+	r1, err := mm.Enqueue(ctx, b, engine.VariantEnglish, true)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("enqueue b: %v", err)
+	}
+	if r1.Matched {
+		t.Fatal("first enqueue must open a game, not match")
+	}
+	// a must not join b's game (a blocked b): it opens its own instead.
+	r2, err := mm.Enqueue(ctx, a, engine.VariantEnglish, true)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("enqueue a: %v", err)
+	}
+	if r2.Matched || r2.Game.ID == r1.Game.ID {
+		t.Fatalf("a joined the blocked player's game %s (matched %v), want a fresh game", r1.Game.ID, r2.Matched)
+	}
+	// A third, unblocked player joins b's still-open game (the oldest), proving the exclusion
+	// is specific to the blocked pair, not a blanket refusal.
+	r3, err := mm.Enqueue(ctx, c, engine.VariantEnglish, true)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("enqueue c: %v", err)
+	}
+	if !r3.Matched || r3.Game.ID != r1.Game.ID {
+		t.Fatalf("unblocked c = (game %s, matched %v), want it to join b's open game %s", r3.Game.ID, r3.Matched, r1.Game.ID)
+	}
+}
+
+// TestAdminSocialLists checks the admin user card's blocks / blocked-by / friends queries
+// return the full truth in both directions, including a friendship that a block overrides but
+// does not delete.
+func TestAdminSocialLists(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	_, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	a, b := seats[0], seats[1]
+	if err := svc.SendFriendRequest(ctx, a, b); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("request: %v", err)
+	}
+	if err := svc.RespondFriendRequest(ctx, b, a, true); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("accept: %v", err)
+	}
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, a, b); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+
+	blocks, err := svc.AdminBlocksBy(ctx, a)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("admin blocks by: %v", err)
+	}
+	if len(blocks) != 1 || blocks[0].AccountID != b || blocks[0].At.IsZero() {
+		t.Errorf("a's blocks = %v, want [b] with a date", blocks)
+	}
+	blockedBy, err := svc.AdminBlockedBy(ctx, b)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("admin blocked by: %v", err)
+	}
+	if len(blockedBy) != 1 || blockedBy[0].AccountID != a {
+		t.Errorf("b's blocked-by = %v, want [a]", blockedBy)
+	}
+	// The friendship survives the block, so it still shows on both admin friend lists.
+	friendsA, err := svc.AdminFriends(ctx, a)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("admin friends: %v", err)
+	}
+	if len(friendsA) != 1 || friendsA[0].AccountID != b || friendsA[0].At.IsZero() {
+		t.Errorf("a's admin friends = %v, want [b] with a date", friendsA)
+	}
+	if friendsB, err := svc.AdminFriends(ctx, b); err != nil || len(friendsB) != 1 || friendsB[0].AccountID != a {
+		t.Errorf("b's admin friends = %v (err %v), want [a]", friendsB, err)
+	}
+}
+
+// blockedWith reads the both-direction block set for id.
+func blockedWith(t *testing.T, soc *social.Service, id uuid.UUID) []uuid.UUID {
+	t.Helper()
+	ids, err := soc.BlockedWith(context.Background(), id)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("blocked with: %v", err)
+	}
+	return ids
+}
+
+// contains reports whether ids includes want.
+func contains(ids []uuid.UUID, want uuid.UUID) bool {
+	for _, id := range ids {
+		if id == want {
+			return true
+		}
+	}
+	return false
+}

backend/internal/inttest/game_limit_test.go

@@ -42,7 +42,7 @@ func TestCountActiveQuickGames(t *testing.T) {
 	// An open (awaiting-opponent) quick game counts.
 	if _, _, err := games.OpenOrJoin(ctx, human, game.CreateParams{
 		Variant: engine.VariantEnglish, TurnTimeout: 24 * time.Hour,
-	}, time.Now().Add(time.Minute)); err != nil {
+	}, time.Now().Add(time.Minute), nil); err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("open quick game: %v", err)
 	}
 	// An active quick game and an honest-AI quick game both count (neither has an invitation row).

backend/internal/inttest/lobby_test.go

@@ -198,14 +198,36 @@ func TestInvitationLazyExpiry(t *testing.T) {
 func TestInvitationBlockedInvitee(t *testing.T) {
 	ctx := context.Background()
 	svc := newInvitationService()
-	social := newSocialService()
+	pub := &capturePublisher{}
+	svc.SetNotifier(pub)
+	soc := newSocialService()
+
+	// The inviter has blocked an invitee: the invitation is refused outright (the inviter is aware).
 	inviter := provisionAccount(t)
-	invitee := provisionAccount(t)
-	if err := social.Block(ctx, invitee, inviter); err != nil {
+	blockedInvitee := provisionAccount(t)
+	if err := soc.Block(ctx, inviter, blockedInvitee); err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
 	}
-	if _, err := svc.CreateInvitation(ctx, inviter, []uuid.UUID{invitee}, englishInvite()); !errors.Is(err, lobby.ErrInvitationBlocked) {
-		t.Fatalf("create blocked = %v, want ErrInvitationBlocked", err)
+	if _, err := svc.CreateInvitation(ctx, inviter, []uuid.UUID{blockedInvitee}, englishInvite()); !errors.Is(err, lobby.ErrInvitationBlocked) {
+		t.Fatalf("create with a blocked invitee = %v, want ErrInvitationBlocked", err)
+	}
+
+	// An invitee who has blocked the inviter is instead suppressed: the invitation is created
+	// (no error — the inviter notices nothing), but that invitee is never notified and never
+	// sees it in their list.
+	inviter2 := provisionAccount(t)
+	suppressed := provisionAccount(t)
+	if err := soc.Block(ctx, suppressed, inviter2); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if _, err := svc.CreateInvitation(ctx, inviter2, []uuid.UUID{suppressed}, englishInvite()); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("create with a suppressing invitee = %v, want nil", err)
+	}
+	if pub.notified(suppressed, notify.NotifyInvitation) {
+		t.Error("an invitee who blocked the inviter must not be notified of the invitation")
+	}
+	if list, _ := svc.ListInvitations(ctx, suppressed); len(list) != 0 {
+		t.Errorf("suppressed invitee's invitation list = %v, want empty", list)
 	}
 }
 

backend/internal/inttest/open_match_test.go

@@ -49,7 +49,7 @@ func openParams(seed int64) game.CreateParams {
 
 func openGame(t *testing.T, svc *game.Service, starter uuid.UUID, seed int64) game.Game {
 	t.Helper()
-	g, joined, err := svc.OpenOrJoin(context.Background(), starter, openParams(seed), time.Now().Add(time.Minute))
+	g, joined, err := svc.OpenOrJoin(context.Background(), starter, openParams(seed), time.Now().Add(time.Minute), nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("open game: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -96,7 +96,7 @@ func TestOpenGameStarterWaitsWhenOpponentMovesFirst(t *testing.T) {
 	clearOpenGames(t)
 	svc := newGameService()
 	starter := provisionAccount(t)
-	g, _, err := svc.OpenOrJoin(ctx, starter, openParams(1), time.Now().Add(time.Minute))
+	g, _, err := svc.OpenOrJoin(ctx, starter, openParams(1), time.Now().Add(time.Minute), nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("open: %v", err)
 	}
@@ -128,7 +128,7 @@ func TestOpenGameJoinAfterStarterMoved(t *testing.T) {
 	}
 
 	joiner := provisionAccount(t)
-	g2, joined, err := svc.OpenOrJoin(ctx, joiner, openParams(0), time.Now().Add(time.Minute))
+	g2, joined, err := svc.OpenOrJoin(ctx, joiner, openParams(0), time.Now().Add(time.Minute), nil)
 	if err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("join: %v", err)
 	}

backend/internal/inttest/social_test.go

@@ -45,6 +45,20 @@ func (c *capturePublisher) notified(user uuid.UUID, sub string) bool {
 	return false
 }
 
+// delivered reports whether an intent of the given top-level kind (e.g. chat_message,
+// nudge) was published to user — used to assert that a blocked sender's message or nudge
+// never reaches the blocker.
+func (c *capturePublisher) delivered(user uuid.UUID, kind string) bool {
+	c.mu.Lock()
+	defer c.mu.Unlock()
+	for _, in := range c.intents {
+		if in.UserID == user && in.Kind == kind {
+			return true
+		}
+	}
+	return false
+}
+
 // TestFriendRequestToRobotStaysPending checks a friend request to a robot is accepted as
 // pending rather than blocked: robots no longer block friend requests, so the request
 // just sits unanswered and later expires — mirroring a human who ignores it.
@@ -128,17 +142,53 @@ func TestFriendRequestRefusedByToggleAndBlock(t *testing.T) {
 		t.Fatalf("toggle send = %v, want ErrRequestBlocked", err)
 	}
 
-	// Block: the addressee has blocked the requester.
-	c, d := provisionAccount(t), provisionAccount(t)
-	if err := svc.Block(ctx, d, c); err != nil {
+	// Block from the requester's own side: a requester who has blocked the addressee is
+	// refused outright (they are the blocker and aware of it). The reverse direction — the
+	// addressee having blocked the requester — is instead silently suppressed, covered by
+	// TestFriendRequestFromBlockedIsSuppressed.
+	_, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	c, d := seats[0], seats[1]
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, c, d); err != nil {
 		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
 	}
 	if err := svc.SendFriendRequest(ctx, c, d); !errors.Is(err, social.ErrRequestBlocked) {
-		t.Fatalf("blocked send = %v, want ErrRequestBlocked", err)
+		t.Fatalf("blocker's own request = %v, want ErrRequestBlocked", err)
 	}
 }
 
-func TestBlockSeversFriendship(t *testing.T) {
+// TestFriendRequestFromBlockedIsSuppressed checks the store-but-hide path: when the
+// addressee has blocked the requester, the requester's friend request succeeds silently
+// (no error — they must not notice the block), is stored, but is never delivered to nor
+// surfaced for the blocker.
+func TestFriendRequestFromBlockedIsSuppressed(t *testing.T) {
+	ctx := context.Background()
+	svc := newSocialService()
+	pub := &capturePublisher{}
+	svc.SetNotifier(pub)
+	_, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
+	blocker, blocked := seats[0], seats[1]
+	if err := svc.Block(ctx, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
+	}
+	if err := svc.SendFriendRequest(ctx, blocked, blocker); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("suppressed request = %v, want nil", err)
+	}
+	if pub.notified(blocker, notify.NotifyFriendRequest) {
+		t.Error("blocker must not be notified of a suppressed request")
+	}
+	if got, _ := svc.ListIncomingRequests(ctx, blocker); len(got) != 0 {
+		t.Errorf("blocker incoming = %v, want none (suppressed)", got)
+	}
+	// The blocked user sees an ordinary outgoing request — no leak of the block.
+	if got, _ := svc.ListOutgoingRequests(ctx, blocked); len(got) != 1 || got[0] != blocker {
+		t.Errorf("blocked outgoing = %v, want [blocker]", got)
+	}
+}
+
+// TestBlockKeepsFriendshipHiddenFromBlocker checks a block overrides but does not delete a
+// friendship: the blocker stops seeing the blocked friend, the blocked user's own list is
+// unchanged (so they never notice), and an unblock cleanly restores the friendship.
+func TestBlockKeepsFriendshipHiddenFromBlocker(t *testing.T) {
 	ctx := context.Background()
 	svc := newSocialService()
 	_, seats := newGameWithSeats(t, 2)
@@ -153,7 +203,16 @@ func TestBlockSeversFriendship(t *testing.T) {
 		t.Fatalf("block: %v", err)
 	}
 	if friends, _ := svc.ListFriends(ctx, a); len(friends) != 0 {
-		t.Errorf("friendship must be severed by a block, got %v", friends)
+		t.Errorf("blocker's friend list = %v, want the blocked friend hidden", friends)
+	}
+	if friends, _ := svc.ListFriends(ctx, b); len(friends) != 1 || friends[0] != a {
+		t.Errorf("blocked user's friend list = %v, want [blocker] unchanged", friends)
+	}
+	if err := svc.Unblock(ctx, a, b); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("unblock: %v", err)
+	}
+	if friends, _ := svc.ListFriends(ctx, a); len(friends) != 1 || friends[0] != b {
+		t.Errorf("after unblock, blocker's friend list = %v, want [b] restored", friends)
 	}
 }
 

backend/internal/lobby/invitations.go

@@ -150,6 +150,14 @@ func (svc *InvitationService) emitInvitationUpdate(ctx context.Context, inv Invi
 	}
 	intents := make([]notify.Intent, 0, len(recipients))
 	for _, id := range recipients {
+		// An invitee who has blocked the inviter never sees this invitation, so they must not
+		// receive its updates either (an update would otherwise re-add it to their lobby). The
+		// inviter always gets updates; on a lookup error suppress rather than risk a leak.
+		if id != inv.InviterID {
+			if blk, err := svc.blocker.Blocks(ctx, id, inv.InviterID); err != nil || blk {
+				continue
+			}
+		}
 		intents = append(intents, notify.NotificationInvitationUpdate(id, summary))
 	}
 	svc.pub.Publish(intents...)
@@ -211,6 +219,11 @@ func (svc *InvitationService) CreateInvitation(ctx context.Context, inviterID uu
 		return Invitation{}, fmt.Errorf("%w: turn timeout %s not allowed", ErrInvalidInvitation, settings.TurnTimeout)
 	}
 	seen := map[uuid.UUID]bool{inviterID: true}
+	// suppressed collects invitees who have blocked the inviter: the invitation is still
+	// created and persisted for them, but they are never notified and never see it (their
+	// friendship with the inviter survived the block, so they can still appear in the
+	// inviter's picker — they must not learn of the block).
+	suppressed := make(map[uuid.UUID]bool)
 	for _, id := range inviteeIDs {
 		if seen[id] {
 			return Invitation{}, fmt.Errorf("%w: %s invited twice or is the inviter", ErrInvalidInvitation, id)
@@ -222,13 +235,22 @@ func (svc *InvitationService) CreateInvitation(ctx context.Context, inviterID uu
 			}
 			return Invitation{}, err
 		}
-		blocked, err := svc.blocker.IsBlocked(ctx, inviterID, id)
+		// A block the inviter placed refuses the invite (the inviter is aware; the picker hides
+		// the invitee anyway). A block the invitee placed on the inviter is instead suppressed.
+		iBlock, err := svc.blocker.Blocks(ctx, inviterID, id)
 		if err != nil {
 			return Invitation{}, err
 		}
-		if blocked {
+		if iBlock {
 			return Invitation{}, ErrInvitationBlocked
 		}
+		theyBlock, err := svc.blocker.Blocks(ctx, id, inviterID)
+		if err != nil {
+			return Invitation{}, err
+		}
+		if theyBlock {
+			suppressed[id] = true
+		}
 	}
 
 	id, err := uuid.NewV7()
@@ -253,7 +275,18 @@ func (svc *InvitationService) CreateInvitation(ctx context.Context, inviterID uu
 	if err != nil {
 		return Invitation{}, err
 	}
-	svc.emitInvitation(ctx, inv, inviteeIDs)
+	// Notify every invitee except those who have blocked the inviter (their copy stays
+	// stored but unseen — the store-but-hide that keeps the block invisible).
+	notifyIDs := inviteeIDs
+	if len(suppressed) > 0 {
+		notifyIDs = make([]uuid.UUID, 0, len(inviteeIDs))
+		for _, id := range inviteeIDs {
+			if !suppressed[id] {
+				notifyIDs = append(notifyIDs, id)
+			}
+		}
+	}
+	svc.emitInvitation(ctx, inv, notifyIDs)
 	return inv, nil
 }
 
@@ -347,6 +380,17 @@ func (svc *InvitationService) ListInvitations(ctx context.Context, accountID uui
 		if err != nil {
 			return nil, err
 		}
+		// Hide an invitation whose inviter the viewer has blocked: it stays stored but must
+		// never surface to the blocker. The viewer's own invitations (as inviter) are unaffected.
+		if inv.InviterID != accountID {
+			blocked, err := svc.blocker.Blocks(ctx, accountID, inv.InviterID)
+			if err != nil {
+				return nil, err
+			}
+			if blocked {
+				continue
+			}
+		}
 		out = append(out, inv)
 	}
 	return out, nil

backend/internal/lobby/lobby.go

@@ -38,11 +38,15 @@ type RobotProvider interface {
 	PickNamed(variant engine.Variant) (uuid.UUID, string, error)
 }
 
-// Blocker reports whether two accounts have a block between them (either
-// direction). social.Service satisfies it; the lobby uses it to refuse
-// invitations between blocked accounts.
+// Blocker exposes the per-user block graph the lobby needs. social.Service satisfies it.
+// Invitations consult the exact direction (Blocks) so the inviter's block refuses while a
+// block the invitee placed on the inviter is silently suppressed; auto-match consults
+// BlockedWith so a block either way keeps the pair out of the same anonymous game.
 type Blocker interface {
-	IsBlocked(ctx context.Context, a, b uuid.UUID) (bool, error)
+	// Blocks reports whether blocker has blocked blocked (exact direction).
+	Blocks(ctx context.Context, blocker, blocked uuid.UUID) (bool, error)
+	// BlockedWith returns every account in a block with accountID in either direction.
+	BlockedWith(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error)
 }
 
 // Auto-match defaults: a casual two-player game on the longest move clock with one

backend/internal/lobby/matchmaker.go

@@ -18,7 +18,10 @@ import (
 // reading a player's view to enrich the opponent_joined event. game.Service satisfies
 // it.
 type GameMatcher interface {
-	OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, params game.CreateParams, openDeadline time.Time) (game.Game, bool, error)
+	// OpenOrJoin joins the caller into another waiting player's open game or opens a fresh
+	// one; exclude lists account IDs whose open game must never be joined (the caller's
+	// per-user block set), so a block keeps the pair out of the same anonymous game.
+	OpenOrJoin(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, params game.CreateParams, openDeadline time.Time, exclude []uuid.UUID) (game.Game, bool, error)
 	AttachRobot(ctx context.Context, gameID, robotID uuid.UUID, displayName string) (game.Game, bool, error)
 	ExpiredOpen(ctx context.Context, now time.Time) ([]game.OpenGame, error)
 	InitialState(ctx context.Context, gameID, accountID uuid.UUID) (notify.PlayerState, error)
@@ -35,8 +38,9 @@ type GameMatcher interface {
 // Matchmaker holds only the wait policy and the live-event publisher, and is safe for
 // concurrent use.
 //
-// Auto-match is anonymous, so it does not consult per-user blocks (those govern
-// friends, chat and invitations between known players).
+// Auto-match is anonymous, but it still consults per-user blocks: a player is never
+// paired into a game whose waiting opponent they have blocked, or who has blocked them
+// (either direction), so a block keeps two players apart everywhere.
 type Matchmaker struct {
 	games   GameMatcher
 	robots  RobotProvider
@@ -44,6 +48,7 @@ type Matchmaker struct {
 	jitter  time.Duration
 	clock   func() time.Time
 	pub     notify.Publisher
+	blocker Blocker
 	log     *zap.Logger
 }
 
@@ -75,6 +80,16 @@ func (m *Matchmaker) SetNotifier(p notify.Publisher) {
 	}
 }
 
+// SetBlocker installs the per-user block source used to keep auto-match from pairing a
+// player with someone they have a block with (either direction). It must be called
+// during startup wiring; the default is no blocker, in which case auto-match pairs
+// anonymously (no block exclusion).
+func (m *Matchmaker) SetBlocker(b Blocker) {
+	if b != nil {
+		m.blocker = b
+	}
+}
+
 // EnqueueResult is the outcome of an auto-match enqueue: the game the caller now plays
 // in, and whether it already had an opponent (they joined a waiting game) rather than
 // being freshly opened and still awaiting one.
@@ -90,7 +105,17 @@ type EnqueueResult struct {
 // caller's own. When the caller joins an existing game, opponent_joined is pushed to
 // that game's waiting starter.
 func (m *Matchmaker) Enqueue(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID, variant engine.Variant, multipleWords bool) (EnqueueResult, error) {
-	g, joined, err := m.games.OpenOrJoin(ctx, accountID, autoMatchParams(variant, multipleWords), m.openDeadline())
+	// Exclude every account the caller has a block with (either direction) from the
+	// candidate open games, so auto-match never pairs a blocked pair into one game.
+	var exclude []uuid.UUID
+	if m.blocker != nil {
+		var err error
+		exclude, err = m.blocker.BlockedWith(ctx, accountID)
+		if err != nil {
+			return EnqueueResult{}, err
+		}
+	}
+	g, joined, err := m.games.OpenOrJoin(ctx, accountID, autoMatchParams(variant, multipleWords), m.openDeadline(), exclude)
 	if err != nil {
 		return EnqueueResult{}, err
 	}

backend/internal/lobby/matchmaker_test.go

@@ -25,6 +25,7 @@ type stubMatcher struct {
 	openErr      error
 	openCalls    int
 	lastDeadline time.Time
+	lastExclude  []uuid.UUID
 
 	expired []game.OpenGame
 
@@ -39,9 +40,10 @@ type stubMatcher struct {
 	createParams game.CreateParams
 }
 
-func (s *stubMatcher) OpenOrJoin(_ context.Context, _ uuid.UUID, _ game.CreateParams, deadline time.Time) (game.Game, bool, error) {
+func (s *stubMatcher) OpenOrJoin(_ context.Context, _ uuid.UUID, _ game.CreateParams, deadline time.Time, exclude []uuid.UUID) (game.Game, bool, error) {
 	s.openCalls++
 	s.lastDeadline = deadline
+	s.lastExclude = exclude
 	return s.openGame, s.openJoined, s.openErr
 }
 
@@ -95,6 +97,33 @@ type capturePub struct{ intents []notify.Intent }
 
 func (c *capturePub) Publish(intents ...notify.Intent) { c.intents = append(c.intents, intents...) }
 
+// fakeBlocker is a Blocker returning a canned both-direction block set.
+type fakeBlocker struct {
+	with []uuid.UUID
+	err  error
+}
+
+func (f *fakeBlocker) Blocks(context.Context, uuid.UUID, uuid.UUID) (bool, error) { return false, nil }
+func (f *fakeBlocker) BlockedWith(context.Context, uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error) {
+	return f.with, f.err
+}
+
+// TestEnqueueExcludesBlockedStarters checks the matchmaker passes the caller's block set
+// (both directions) to OpenOrJoin as the exclusion list, so auto-match never joins a game
+// whose waiting player has a block with the caller.
+func TestEnqueueExcludesBlockedStarters(t *testing.T) {
+	caller, blocked := uuid.New(), uuid.New()
+	m := &stubMatcher{openGame: twoSeatGame(caller, uuid.Nil)}
+	mm := NewMatchmaker(m, &fakeRobots{id: uuid.New()}, time.Minute, time.Minute, zap.NewNop())
+	mm.SetBlocker(&fakeBlocker{with: []uuid.UUID{blocked}})
+	if _, err := mm.Enqueue(context.Background(), caller, engine.VariantEnglish, true); err != nil {
+		t.Fatalf("enqueue: %v", err)
+	}
+	if !slices.Contains(m.lastExclude, blocked) {
+		t.Fatalf("OpenOrJoin exclude = %v, want it to contain the blocked id %s", m.lastExclude, blocked)
+	}
+}
+
 // twoSeatGame is a two-player game seating starter at seat 0 and opponent at seat 1
 // (uuid.Nil for a still-empty opponent seat).
 func twoSeatGame(starter, opponent uuid.UUID) game.Game {

backend/internal/notify/notify.go

@@ -62,6 +62,16 @@ const (
 	// it re-fetches profile.get to show or hide the banner. It carries no payload (the
 	// banner set rides the profile response). In-app only.
 	NotifyBanner = "banner"
+	// NotifyUserBlocked confirms to the blocker that a per-user block took effect,
+	// carrying the blocked account, so every one of the blocker's sessions updates the
+	// in-game block/add-friend controls and the struck name in place. It is delivered
+	// only to the blocker — never to the blocked user, who must not learn of the block —
+	// and is in-app only (no out-of-app push: blocking is the viewer's own action).
+	NotifyUserBlocked = "user_blocked"
+	// NotifyUserUnblocked confirms an unblock to the (former) blocker, carrying the
+	// unblocked account, so their open game screens restore the controls and un-strike
+	// the name in place. Like NotifyUserBlocked it reaches only the actor and is in-app only.
+	NotifyUserUnblocked = "user_unblocked"
 )
 
 // Intent is one live event destined for a single user. Payload is the

backend/internal/server/handlers_admin_console.go

@@ -389,9 +389,30 @@ func (s *Server) consoleUserDetail(c *gin.Context) {
 		view.Roles = roles
 	}
 	view.KnownRoles = account.KnownRoles
+	if s.social != nil {
+		if rels, err := s.social.AdminBlocksBy(ctx, id); err == nil {
+			view.Blocks = relationRows(rels)
+		}
+		if rels, err := s.social.AdminBlockedBy(ctx, id); err == nil {
+			view.BlockedBy = relationRows(rels)
+		}
+		if rels, err := s.social.AdminFriends(ctx, id); err == nil {
+			view.Friends = relationRows(rels)
+		}
+	}
 	s.renderConsole(c, "user_detail", "users", acc.DisplayName, view)
 }
 
+// relationRows maps the social graph entries to the cross-linked, date-formatted rows the
+// user card renders.
+func relationRows(rels []social.AdminRelation) []adminconsole.RelationRow {
+	out := make([]adminconsole.RelationRow, 0, len(rels))
+	for _, r := range rels {
+		out = append(out, adminconsole.RelationRow{AccountID: r.AccountID.String(), DisplayName: r.DisplayName, Date: fmtTime(r.At)})
+	}
+	return out
+}
+
 // consoleUserMessage sends an operator Telegram message to one user.
 func (s *Server) consoleUserMessage(c *gin.Context) {
 	ctx := c.Request.Context()

backend/internal/server/handlers_blocks.go

@@ -7,10 +7,11 @@ import (
 	"github.com/google/uuid"
 )
 
-// The /api/v1/user/blocks/* handlers wire the per-user block list. A block
-// is mutual in effect (the social checks apply it both ways) and severs any
-// friendship between the pair. They reuse the friend handlers' targetIDRequest and
-// account-ref resolution.
+// The /api/v1/user/blocks/* handlers wire the per-user block list. A block is asymmetric:
+// the blocker stops seeing everything from the blocked user (chat, nudge, requests,
+// invitations, matchmaking) while the blocked user notices nothing; it overrides — but does
+// not delete — any friendship (an unblock restores it). They reuse the friend handlers'
+// targetIDRequest and account-ref resolution.
 
 // blockListDTO is the accounts the caller has blocked.
 type blockListDTO struct {

backend/internal/social/admin.go

@@ -0,0 +1,79 @@
+package social
+
+import (
+	"context"
+	"fmt"
+	"time"
+
+	"github.com/google/uuid"
+)
+
+// AdminRelation is one entry in the admin user card's blocks / blocked-by / friends lists:
+// the other account, its display name, and when the relationship was recorded. It is the
+// unfiltered truth — the asymmetric block suppression that hides relationships from players
+// never applies to the operator console.
+type AdminRelation struct {
+	AccountID   uuid.UUID
+	DisplayName string
+	At          time.Time
+}
+
+// AdminBlocksBy returns the accounts blockerID has blocked, with display names and block
+// times, newest first — the admin card's "blocks" list.
+func (svc *Service) AdminBlocksBy(ctx context.Context, blockerID uuid.UUID) ([]AdminRelation, error) {
+	return svc.store.adminBlocks(ctx, blockerID, true)
+}
+
+// AdminBlockedBy returns the accounts that have blocked blockedID, with names and times,
+// newest first — the admin card's "blocked by" list.
+func (svc *Service) AdminBlockedBy(ctx context.Context, blockedID uuid.UUID) ([]AdminRelation, error) {
+	return svc.store.adminBlocks(ctx, blockedID, false)
+}
+
+// AdminFriends returns accountID's accepted friendships in either direction, with the other
+// account's name and when the friendship was accepted, newest first — the admin card's
+// "friends" list.
+func (svc *Service) AdminFriends(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID) ([]AdminRelation, error) {
+	const q = `SELECT other_id, a.display_name, at FROM (
+  SELECT CASE WHEN f.requester_id = $1 THEN f.addressee_id ELSE f.requester_id END AS other_id,
+         COALESCE(f.responded_at, f.created_at) AS at
+  FROM backend.friendships f
+  WHERE f.status = 'accepted' AND (f.requester_id = $1 OR f.addressee_id = $1)
+) rel
+JOIN backend.accounts a ON a.account_id = rel.other_id
+ORDER BY at DESC`
+	return svc.store.adminRelations(ctx, q, accountID)
+}
+
+// adminBlocks reads the blocks touching id: when asBlocker the rows where id is the blocker
+// (the other side is who they blocked), otherwise the rows where id is the blocked (the
+// other side is who blocked them).
+func (s *Store) adminBlocks(ctx context.Context, id uuid.UUID, asBlocker bool) ([]AdminRelation, error) {
+	q := `SELECT b.blocked_id, a.display_name, b.created_at
+FROM backend.blocks b JOIN backend.accounts a ON a.account_id = b.blocked_id
+WHERE b.blocker_id = $1 ORDER BY b.created_at DESC`
+	if !asBlocker {
+		q = `SELECT b.blocker_id, a.display_name, b.created_at
+FROM backend.blocks b JOIN backend.accounts a ON a.account_id = b.blocker_id
+WHERE b.blocked_id = $1 ORDER BY b.created_at DESC`
+	}
+	return s.adminRelations(ctx, q, id)
+}
+
+// adminRelations runs an admin list query of the (account_id, display_name, at) shape.
+func (s *Store) adminRelations(ctx context.Context, query string, id uuid.UUID) ([]AdminRelation, error) {
+	rows, err := s.db.QueryContext(ctx, query, id)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, fmt.Errorf("social: admin relations: %w", err)
+	}
+	defer rows.Close()
+	var out []AdminRelation
+	for rows.Next() {
+		var r AdminRelation
+		if err := rows.Scan(&r.AccountID, &r.DisplayName, &r.At); err != nil {
+			return nil, fmt.Errorf("social: scan admin relation: %w", err)
+		}
+		out = append(out, r)
+	}
+	return out, rows.Err()
+}

backend/internal/social/blocks.go

@@ -10,24 +10,41 @@ import (
 	"github.com/go-jet/jet/v2/qrm"
 	"github.com/google/uuid"
 
+	"scrabble/backend/internal/notify"
 	"scrabble/backend/internal/postgres/jet/backend/model"
 	"scrabble/backend/internal/postgres/jet/backend/table"
 )
 
-// Block records that blockerID has blocked blockedID. Blocking severs any
-// friendship or pending request between the two and, through the mutual block
-// checks, suppresses chat visibility and new requests/invitations in both
-// directions. It is idempotent.
+// Block records that blockerID has blocked blockedID. The block is asymmetric and
+// non-destructive: it suppresses everything the blocked user sends toward the blocker
+// (chat, nudge, friend requests, invitations are persisted but never delivered or
+// surfaced) and hides the blocked user from the blocker's lists, while the blocked
+// user notices nothing. It does NOT delete the friendship — an unblock cleanly
+// restores it — and keeps every stored row. As a courtesy it marks any of the blocked
+// user's still-unread chat entries in their shared games read at once, so no stale
+// unread badge lingers for someone the blocker no longer sees. A user_blocked event is
+// delivered to the blocker (only) so their other sessions update in place. It is idempotent.
 func (svc *Service) Block(ctx context.Context, blockerID, blockedID uuid.UUID) error {
 	if blockerID == blockedID {
 		return ErrSelfRelation
 	}
-	return svc.store.insertBlock(ctx, blockerID, blockedID)
+	if err := svc.store.insertBlock(ctx, blockerID, blockedID); err != nil {
+		return err
+	}
+	svc.pub.Publish(notify.NotificationAccount(blockerID, notify.NotifyUserBlocked, svc.accountRef(ctx, blockedID)))
+	return nil
 }
 
-// Unblock removes blockerID's block on blockedID. It is idempotent.
+// Unblock removes blockerID's block on blockedID and confirms it to the (former)
+// blocker with a user_unblocked event so their open game screens restore the controls
+// and un-strike the name in place. Any friendship the block had been overriding becomes
+// effective again. It is idempotent.
 func (svc *Service) Unblock(ctx context.Context, blockerID, blockedID uuid.UUID) error {
-	return svc.store.deleteBlock(ctx, blockerID, blockedID)
+	if err := svc.store.deleteBlock(ctx, blockerID, blockedID); err != nil {
+		return err
+	}
+	svc.pub.Publish(notify.NotificationAccount(blockerID, notify.NotifyUserUnblocked, svc.accountRef(ctx, blockedID)))
+	return nil
 }
 
 // ListBlocks returns the account IDs blockerID has blocked.
@@ -35,11 +52,43 @@ func (svc *Service) ListBlocks(ctx context.Context, blockerID uuid.UUID) ([]uuid
 	return svc.store.listBlocks(ctx, blockerID)
 }
 
+// BlockedWith returns every account that has a block with accountID in either
+// direction (those accountID blocked, plus those who blocked accountID), de-duplicated.
+// The matchmaker excludes them so a block — either way — keeps the pair out of the same
+// anonymous auto-match game.
+func (svc *Service) BlockedWith(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error) {
+	mine, err := svc.store.listBlocks(ctx, accountID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	theirs, err := svc.store.listBlockedBy(ctx, accountID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	seen := make(map[uuid.UUID]struct{}, len(mine)+len(theirs))
+	out := make([]uuid.UUID, 0, len(mine)+len(theirs))
+	for _, id := range append(mine, theirs...) {
+		if _, dup := seen[id]; dup {
+			continue
+		}
+		seen[id] = struct{}{}
+		out = append(out, id)
+	}
+	return out, nil
+}
+
 // IsBlocked reports whether a block stands between a and b in either direction.
 func (svc *Service) IsBlocked(ctx context.Context, a, b uuid.UUID) (bool, error) {
 	return svc.store.isBlocked(ctx, a, b)
 }
 
+// Blocks reports whether blocker has blocked blocked — the exact direction, not the
+// symmetric IsBlocked. It backs the directional guards (chat, friend requests,
+// invitations) that must tell the blocker (refuse) from the blocked (silently suppress).
+func (svc *Service) Blocks(ctx context.Context, blocker, blocked uuid.UUID) (bool, error) {
+	return svc.store.blockExists(ctx, blocker, blocked)
+}
+
 // isBlocked reports whether a block row exists between a and b in either direction.
 func (s *Store) isBlocked(ctx context.Context, a, b uuid.UUID) (bool, error) {
 	stmt := postgres.SELECT(table.Blocks.BlockerID).
@@ -58,14 +107,33 @@ func (s *Store) isBlocked(ctx context.Context, a, b uuid.UUID) (bool, error) {
 	return true, nil
 }
 
-// insertBlock severs any friendship between the pair and inserts the block, in one
-// transaction; a duplicate block is ignored.
+// blockExists reports whether blocker has blocked blocked — the exact direction, not
+// the symmetric isBlocked. The asymmetric block turns on this one-directional test:
+// the blocker filters out and refuses the blocked user, while the blocked user's own
+// actions are silently suppressed rather than refused, so they never notice.
+func (s *Store) blockExists(ctx context.Context, blocker, blocked uuid.UUID) (bool, error) {
+	stmt := postgres.SELECT(table.Blocks.BlockerID).
+		FROM(table.Blocks).
+		WHERE(table.Blocks.BlockerID.EQ(postgres.UUID(blocker)).
+			AND(table.Blocks.BlockedID.EQ(postgres.UUID(blocked)))).
+		LIMIT(1)
+	var row model.Blocks
+	if err := stmt.QueryContext(ctx, s.db, &row); err != nil {
+		if errors.Is(err, qrm.ErrNoRows) {
+			return false, nil
+		}
+		return false, fmt.Errorf("social: block exists: %w", err)
+	}
+	return true, nil
+}
+
+// insertBlock inserts the block and, in the same transaction, marks read every chat
+// entry the blocked user authored that the blocker had still left unread across their
+// shared games — so no stale unread badge lingers for someone the blocker no longer
+// sees. It deliberately leaves the friendship intact (the block overrides it; an
+// unblock restores it). A duplicate block is ignored.
 func (s *Store) insertBlock(ctx context.Context, blocker, blocked uuid.UUID) error {
 	return withTx(ctx, s.db, func(tx *sql.Tx) error {
-		del := table.Friendships.DELETE().WHERE(edgeEither(blocker, blocked))
-		if _, err := del.ExecContext(ctx, tx); err != nil {
-			return fmt.Errorf("clear friendship on block: %w", err)
-		}
 		ins := table.Blocks.
 			INSERT(table.Blocks.BlockerID, table.Blocks.BlockedID).
 			VALUES(blocker, blocked).
@@ -73,6 +141,17 @@ func (s *Store) insertBlock(ctx context.Context, blocker, blocked uuid.UUID) err
 		if _, err := ins.ExecContext(ctx, tx); err != nil {
 			return fmt.Errorf("insert block: %w", err)
 		}
+		// Clear the blocker's unread bit on every entry the blocked user sent, in any game
+		// they share, resolving the blocker's seat through game_players. The bitwise terms
+		// are cast through int4 so the operators resolve unambiguously (as in markRead).
+		const clearUnread = `UPDATE backend.chat_messages m
+SET unread_seats = (m.unread_seats::int & ~(1 << p.seat::int))::smallint
+FROM backend.game_players p
+WHERE p.account_id = $1 AND p.game_id = m.game_id
+  AND m.sender_id = $2 AND (m.unread_seats::int & (1 << p.seat::int)) <> 0`
+		if _, err := tx.ExecContext(ctx, clearUnread, blocker, blocked); err != nil {
+			return fmt.Errorf("clear unread on block: %w", err)
+		}
 		return nil
 	})
 }
@@ -104,3 +183,21 @@ func (s *Store) listBlocks(ctx context.Context, blocker uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID,
 	}
 	return out, nil
 }
+
+// listBlockedBy returns the accounts that have blocked blocked — the reverse of
+// listBlocks. The matchmaker unions the two so a block in either direction keeps a
+// pair out of the same auto-match game.
+func (s *Store) listBlockedBy(ctx context.Context, blocked uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error) {
+	stmt := postgres.SELECT(table.Blocks.BlockerID).
+		FROM(table.Blocks).
+		WHERE(table.Blocks.BlockedID.EQ(postgres.UUID(blocked)))
+	var rows []model.Blocks
+	if err := stmt.QueryContext(ctx, s.db, &rows); err != nil {
+		return nil, fmt.Errorf("social: list blocked by: %w", err)
+	}
+	out := make([]uuid.UUID, 0, len(rows))
+	for _, r := range rows {
+		out = append(out, r.BlockerID)
+	}
+	return out, nil
+}

backend/internal/social/chat.go

@@ -100,17 +100,32 @@ func (svc *Service) PostMessage(ctx context.Context, gameID, senderID uuid.UUID,
 	if err := Clean(body); err != nil {
 		return Message{}, err
 	}
-	// A disguised robot opponent never reads chat, so its recipient bit is born clear.
+	// Blocker-side guard: a sender whose only opponents are people they have blocked cannot
+	// post (the composer is hidden client-side; this is the server-side counterpart). In a
+	// multi-player game with a non-blocked opponent the post is allowed and reaches them.
+	if guard, err := svc.senderBlocksEveryOpponent(ctx, seats, senderID); err != nil {
+		return Message{}, err
+	} else if guard {
+		return Message{}, ErrRecipientBlocked
+	}
+	// Recipients whose copy is born read so it never shows as unread: a disguised robot
+	// opponent (never opens the chat) and any recipient who has blocked the sender — the
+	// latter is also dropped from live delivery below, so the block stays invisible to the
+	// blocked sender while the blocker sees nothing.
 	autoRead, err := svc.robotRecipients(ctx, seats, senderID)
 	if err != nil {
 		return Message{}, err
 	}
-	msg, err := svc.store.insertChatMessage(ctx, gameID, senderID, kindMessage, body, parseIP(senderIP), recipientMask(seats, senderID, autoRead))
+	suppressed, err := svc.blockedRecipients(ctx, seats, senderID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return Message{}, err
+	}
+	msg, err := svc.store.insertChatMessage(ctx, gameID, senderID, kindMessage, body, parseIP(senderIP), recipientMask(seats, senderID, mergeSeatSets(autoRead, suppressed)))
 	if err != nil {
 		return Message{}, err
 	}
 	svc.metrics.recordChat(ctx, kindMessage)
-	svc.emitChat(seats, senderID, msg)
+	svc.emitChat(seats, senderID, msg, suppressed)
 	return msg, nil
 }
 
@@ -138,6 +153,20 @@ func (svc *Service) Nudge(ctx context.Context, gameID, senderID uuid.UUID) (Mess
 	if idx == toMove {
 		return Message{}, ErrNudgeOnOwnTurn
 	}
+	// The awaited player is the nudge's sole recipient.
+	var target uuid.UUID
+	if toMove >= 0 && toMove < len(seats) {
+		target = seats[toMove]
+	}
+	// Blocker-side guard: a sender who has blocked the awaited player cannot nudge them
+	// (the control is hidden client-side; this is the server-side counterpart).
+	if target != uuid.Nil {
+		if guard, err := svc.store.blockExists(ctx, senderID, target); err != nil {
+			return Message{}, err
+		} else if guard {
+			return Message{}, ErrRecipientBlocked
+		}
+	}
 	last, ok, err := svc.store.lastNudgeAt(ctx, gameID, senderID)
 	if err != nil {
 		return Message{}, err
@@ -153,16 +182,30 @@ func (svc *Service) Nudge(ctx context.Context, gameID, senderID uuid.UUID) (Mess
 			return Message{}, ErrNudgeTooSoon
 		}
 	}
-	msg, err := svc.store.insertChatMessage(ctx, gameID, senderID, kindNudge, "", nil, int16(1)<<uint(toMove))
+	// Suppress when the awaited player has blocked the sender: the nudge still persists and
+	// counts toward the once-per-hour cooldown (the sender notices nothing) but is born read
+	// (mask 0) and never delivered, so the blocker sees no nudge.
+	var suppressed bool
+	if target != uuid.Nil {
+		suppressed, err = svc.store.blockExists(ctx, target, senderID)
+		if err != nil {
+			return Message{}, err
+		}
+	}
+	var mask int16
+	if !suppressed && target != uuid.Nil {
+		mask = int16(1) << uint(toMove)
+	}
+	msg, err := svc.store.insertChatMessage(ctx, gameID, senderID, kindNudge, "", nil, mask)
 	if err != nil {
 		return Message{}, err
 	}
 	svc.metrics.recordChat(ctx, kindNudge)
-	if toMove >= 0 && toMove < len(seats) {
+	if !suppressed && target != uuid.Nil {
 		// Name the sender by their per-game seat snapshot, so the toast and the out-of-app push
 		// read "<name>: …"; an unresolved name (best-effort) falls back to the plain phrase.
 		senderName, _ := svc.games.SeatName(ctx, gameID, senderID)
-		nudge := notify.Nudge(seats[toMove], gameID, senderID, senderName)
+		nudge := notify.Nudge(target, gameID, senderID, senderName)
 		if lang, err := svc.games.GameLanguage(ctx, gameID); err == nil {
 			nudge.Language = lang // route by the game's bot, not the recipient's last-login one
 		}
@@ -187,12 +230,13 @@ func (svc *Service) actedSince(ctx context.Context, gameID, senderID uuid.UUID,
 	return false, nil
 }
 
-// emitChat pushes a chat message to every seated player except the sender
-// (best-effort live delivery; the recipients still read it via Messages).
-func (svc *Service) emitChat(seats []uuid.UUID, senderID uuid.UUID, m Message) {
+// emitChat pushes a chat message to every seated player except the sender and any
+// recipient in suppressed — a recipient who has blocked the sender, who must never see
+// it (best-effort live delivery; the other recipients still read it via Messages).
+func (svc *Service) emitChat(seats []uuid.UUID, senderID uuid.UUID, m Message, suppressed map[uuid.UUID]bool) {
 	intents := make([]notify.Intent, 0, len(seats))
 	for _, id := range seats {
-		if id == senderID {
+		if id == senderID || suppressed[id] {
 			continue
 		}
 		intents = append(intents, notify.ChatMessage(id, m.GameID, m.SenderID, m.ID.String(), m.Kind, m.Body, m.CreatedAt))
@@ -208,8 +252,9 @@ func (svc *Service) LastNudgeAt(ctx context.Context, gameID, senderID uuid.UUID)
 }
 
 // Messages returns the per-game chat visible to viewerID: the viewer must be a
-// seated player. Messages from a sender the viewer has a block with (either
-// direction) are dropped, and if the viewer has disabled chat only nudges remain.
+// seated player. Messages from a sender the viewer has blocked are dropped — one
+// direction only, so a blocked player still sees the blocker's messages and never
+// notices the block — and if the viewer has disabled chat only nudges remain.
 func (svc *Service) Messages(ctx context.Context, gameID, viewerID uuid.UUID) ([]Message, error) {
 	seats, _, _, err := svc.games.Participants(ctx, gameID)
 	if err != nil {
@@ -227,7 +272,7 @@ func (svc *Service) Messages(ctx context.Context, gameID, viewerID uuid.UUID) ([
 		if seat == viewerID {
 			continue
 		}
-		yes, err := svc.store.isBlocked(ctx, viewerID, seat)
+		yes, err := svc.store.blockExists(ctx, viewerID, seat)
 		if err != nil {
 			return nil, err
 		}
@@ -303,6 +348,72 @@ func (svc *Service) robotRecipients(ctx context.Context, seats []uuid.UUID, send
 	return robots, nil
 }
 
+// blockedRecipients returns the seated recipients (every non-empty seat but the sender)
+// that have blocked the sender. Their copy of a message or nudge is born read and is not
+// delivered — the store-but-hide that keeps a block invisible to the blocked sender while
+// denying the blocker any sight of what they send.
+func (svc *Service) blockedRecipients(ctx context.Context, seats []uuid.UUID, senderID uuid.UUID) (map[uuid.UUID]bool, error) {
+	var out map[uuid.UUID]bool
+	for _, id := range seats {
+		if id == uuid.Nil || id == senderID {
+			continue
+		}
+		yes, err := svc.store.blockExists(ctx, id, senderID)
+		if err != nil {
+			return nil, err
+		}
+		if yes {
+			if out == nil {
+				out = make(map[uuid.UUID]bool)
+			}
+			out[id] = true
+		}
+	}
+	return out, nil
+}
+
+// senderBlocksEveryOpponent reports whether senderID has blocked every other seated
+// player (and there is at least one). It is the blocker-side chat guard: a player whose
+// only opponents are people they have blocked cannot post. In a multi-player game that
+// still has a non-blocked opponent it is false, so the player can talk to the others.
+func (svc *Service) senderBlocksEveryOpponent(ctx context.Context, seats []uuid.UUID, senderID uuid.UUID) (bool, error) {
+	opponents := 0
+	for _, id := range seats {
+		if id == uuid.Nil || id == senderID {
+			continue
+		}
+		opponents++
+		blocked, err := svc.store.blockExists(ctx, senderID, id)
+		if err != nil {
+			return false, err
+		}
+		if !blocked {
+			return false, nil
+		}
+	}
+	return opponents > 0, nil
+}
+
+// mergeSeatSets returns the union of two seat sets; either may be nil. It folds the
+// born-read recipients (disguised robots and recipients who blocked the sender) into one
+// mask input.
+func mergeSeatSets(a, b map[uuid.UUID]bool) map[uuid.UUID]bool {
+	if len(b) == 0 {
+		return a
+	}
+	if len(a) == 0 {
+		return b
+	}
+	out := make(map[uuid.UUID]bool, len(a)+len(b))
+	for id := range a {
+		out[id] = true
+	}
+	for id := range b {
+		out[id] = true
+	}
+	return out
+}
+
 // insertChatMessage stores one chat row, seeding its unread bitmask, and returns it.
 func (s *Store) insertChatMessage(ctx context.Context, gameID, senderID uuid.UUID, kind, body string, ip *string, unreadMask int16) (Message, error) {
 	id, err := uuid.NewV7()

backend/internal/social/friends.go

@@ -51,7 +51,11 @@ func (svc *Service) SendFriendRequest(ctx context.Context, requesterID, addresse
 	if requesterID == addresseeID {
 		return ErrSelfRelation
 	}
-	blocked, err := svc.store.isBlocked(ctx, requesterID, addresseeID)
+	iBlockThem, err := svc.store.blockExists(ctx, requesterID, addresseeID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return err
+	}
+	theyBlockMe, err := svc.store.blockExists(ctx, addresseeID, requesterID)
 	if err != nil {
 		return err
 	}
@@ -62,7 +66,17 @@ func (svc *Service) SendFriendRequest(ctx context.Context, requesterID, addresse
 		}
 		return err
 	}
-	if blocked || addressee.BlockFriendRequests {
+	if iBlockThem {
+		// The requester has blocked the addressee — they are the blocker and aware of it.
+		return ErrRequestBlocked
+	}
+	// When the addressee has blocked the requester, the request still proceeds and persists
+	// by the normal logic below, but it is never delivered and the blocker never sees it
+	// (ListIncomingRequests filters it out) — the blocked requester must not learn of the
+	// block. The flag gates only the notification; it also bypasses the addressee's
+	// block_friend_requests toggle so the suppressed request looks ordinary to the requester.
+	suppressed := theyBlockMe
+	if !suppressed && addressee.BlockFriendRequests {
 		return ErrRequestBlocked
 	}
 	shared, err := svc.games.SharedGame(ctx, requesterID, addresseeID)
@@ -102,7 +116,9 @@ func (svc *Service) SendFriendRequest(ctx context.Context, requesterID, addresse
 			if err := svc.store.refreshFriendRequest(ctx, requesterID, addresseeID, svc.now()); err != nil {
 				return err
 			}
-			svc.pub.Publish(notify.NotificationAccount(addresseeID, notify.NotifyFriendRequest, svc.accountRef(ctx, requesterID)))
+			if !suppressed {
+				svc.pub.Publish(notify.NotificationAccount(addresseeID, notify.NotifyFriendRequest, svc.accountRef(ctx, requesterID)))
+			}
 			return nil
 		}
 	}
@@ -112,7 +128,9 @@ func (svc *Service) SendFriendRequest(ctx context.Context, requesterID, addresse
 		}
 		return err
 	}
-	svc.pub.Publish(notify.NotificationAccount(addresseeID, notify.NotifyFriendRequest, svc.accountRef(ctx, requesterID)))
+	if !suppressed {
+		svc.pub.Publish(notify.NotificationAccount(addresseeID, notify.NotifyFriendRequest, svc.accountRef(ctx, requesterID)))
+	}
 	return nil
 }
 
@@ -164,15 +182,55 @@ func (svc *Service) Unfriend(ctx context.Context, accountID, otherID uuid.UUID)
 	return svc.store.deleteFriendship(ctx, accountID, otherID)
 }
 
-// ListFriends returns the account IDs that are accepted friends of accountID.
+// ListFriends returns the account IDs that are accepted friends of accountID, with any
+// the caller has blocked filtered out: a block overrides — but does not delete — the
+// friendship, so the blocker stops seeing the blocked friend while the blocked user's own
+// list still shows the blocker (they never notice).
 func (svc *Service) ListFriends(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error) {
-	return svc.store.listFriends(ctx, accountID)
+	ids, err := svc.store.listFriends(ctx, accountID)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	return svc.dropBlocked(ctx, accountID, ids)
 }
 
 // ListIncomingRequests returns the account IDs that have a live (not yet expired)
-// pending friend request awaiting accountID's response.
+// pending friend request awaiting accountID's response, with any from a requester the
+// caller has blocked filtered out (their suppressed request stays stored but unseen).
 func (svc *Service) ListIncomingRequests(ctx context.Context, accountID uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error) {
-	return svc.store.listIncomingRequests(ctx, accountID, svc.now().Add(-friendRequestTTL))
+	ids, err := svc.store.listIncomingRequests(ctx, accountID, svc.now().Add(-friendRequestTTL))
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	return svc.dropBlocked(ctx, accountID, ids)
+}
+
+// dropBlocked removes from ids every account the viewer has blocked. It keeps the
+// asymmetric block one-directional: the blocker stops seeing those they blocked in their
+// friend / incoming-request lists, while the blocked user's lists are never filtered.
+func (svc *Service) dropBlocked(ctx context.Context, viewer uuid.UUID, ids []uuid.UUID) ([]uuid.UUID, error) {
+	if len(ids) == 0 {
+		return ids, nil
+	}
+	blockedIDs, err := svc.store.listBlocks(ctx, viewer)
+	if err != nil {
+		return nil, err
+	}
+	if len(blockedIDs) == 0 {
+		return ids, nil
+	}
+	blocked := make(map[uuid.UUID]struct{}, len(blockedIDs))
+	for _, id := range blockedIDs {
+		blocked[id] = struct{}{}
+	}
+	out := make([]uuid.UUID, 0, len(ids))
+	for _, id := range ids {
+		if _, b := blocked[id]; b {
+			continue
+		}
+		out = append(out, id)
+	}
+	return out, nil
 }
 
 // ListOutgoingRequests returns the account IDs the caller has already requested and

backend/internal/social/social.go

@@ -80,6 +80,10 @@ var (
 	ErrMessageNotFound = errors.New("social: message not found")
 	// ErrChatBlocked is returned when the sender has disabled chat for themselves.
 	ErrChatBlocked = errors.New("social: chat is disabled for this account")
+	// ErrRecipientBlocked is returned when a player tries to chat to, or nudge, someone
+	// they have blocked — the blocker-side guard behind the hidden composer (a blocked
+	// player's own sends are never refused, only silently suppressed, so they never notice).
+	ErrRecipientBlocked = errors.New("social: cannot message a blocked player")
 	// ErrMessageTooLong is returned when a chat message exceeds the rune limit.
 	ErrMessageTooLong = errors.New("social: message exceeds the length limit")
 	// ErrEmptyMessage is returned when a chat message is blank after trimming.