feat(account): brand and harden the email pipeline

Swap the net/smtp mailer for go-mail behind the existing Mailer seam: the
Message struct now carries a text + HTML body, TLS mode is chosen from the port
(implicit TLS on 465, else mandatory STARTTLS), a dial timeout bounds the
synchronous send, and no client certificate is needed. Add a branded, image-free,
mobile-friendly ru/en HTML template (with a plain-text alternative) rendering a
large readable code and an ignore-notice footer with a landing link.

Add BACKEND_PUBLIC_BASE_URL config (the canonical origin for the email footer
link, never the request Host — anti-injection), required when a relay is
configured.

Fix the email-login address squat: ProvisionEmail creates the account flagged
is_guest until the code is confirmed, so an abandoned login is reaped like any
guest and its address freed; confirming (login or link) clears the flag. Seed the
new account's language from the client, plumbed through the email-login request.

The confirm deeplink, its transport surface and the send rate-limit land in
follow-up work.

backend/go.sum

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+github.com/wneessen/go-mail v0.7.3 h1:g3DravXC5SMlVdboFrQA8Jx95A8sOzoBeS5F+vzNRK0=
+github.com/wneessen/go-mail v0.7.3/go.mod h1:QGhBX0yNbc1J+Mkjcu7z2rpj4B4l+BmDY8gYznPC9sk=
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@@ -400,6 +402,8 @@ golang.org/x/text v0.9.0/go.mod h1:e1OnstbJyHTd6l/uOt8jFFHp6TRDWZR/bV3emEE/zU8=
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+golang.org/x/text v0.37.0/go.mod h1:a5sjxXGs9hsn/AJVwuElvCAo9v8QYLzvavO5z2PiM38=
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